10 Marriage-Ending Red Flags Men Must Not Ignore.
10 marriage-ending red flags men must not ignore.
Some of these are worse than others, but all of them signal a marriage in demise.
Of course, every situation requires nuance but this is a rough outline for speaking to a wide audience.
I’m not gonna hold back, so buckle up.
1. “I love you, but I am not in love with you”:
Ouch.
If you’ve got "I love you, but I'm not in love with you," she’s super duper done.
Done, as in the Titanic just hit the iceberg, done.
Those words, when uttered from a girl’s lips, are extremely meaningful, and I will perhaps write an entire piece on it, but for now, I’ll summarize by saying:
She’s done with you and is preparing her hypergamous branch swing.
99% of the time she is either bumping uglies with someone else or has got him lined up.
You are no longer in a monogamous relationship.
Act accordingly.
2. Dead/Zombie Bedroom:
If she’s not screwing you, she’s screwing someone else.
Either mentally or physically.
Women love s3x too, ya know.
Your woman has an intense longing to melt away under the sweaty thrusting powerful body of the high-value man she has a genuine desire for.
Is that man you?
If she’s holding back from getting wild with you, there’s a major red flag going on.
She’s saving the best, and that ain’t for you.
Not now at least.
Everything you want her to do she will do, and if she’s not doing
it, it’s only because it’s you.
You are the one she won’t do it with.
She’ll do it for Chad.
Get real: If she's not putting out or she's holding back, you don’t have a relationship, let alone a marriage.
Have some self-respect, man.
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